On Trans Day of Visibility, Not a word is said for the Parents who are erased

Daughters, sons, mothers, fathers, sisters, and brothers of trans-identified youth are told that the people they loved, raised, and shared homes and experiences with no longer exist. There is no day for them because most days are overcome with the painful reminder that their loved one either no longer wants to see them, or has branded them with various slurs, lies, and negative attributions.





Nothing is said for these people- no vigils, celebrations, or moments of silence for those who have lost children- most of whom hold a belief that their relative will one day return to them.


“My daughter removed me from her life after I refused to finance her breast removal surgery- she brought local trans activists to come to my house whilst she was still a minor and left me when she turned 18. She recently had her breasts removed, the gleeful money hungry surgeon took her money without responding to the messages sent from a loving mother.”

Trans day of visibility- for who? For the parents who have been written out of their children's lives for refusing to go along with unscientific beliefs which encourage self-harm, they are invisible, erased, and hold a continually burning candle for the teen they pray will return.


This is a movement that seeks to remove children from parents who voice concern, doubt, and advise caution.


This is a day that celebrates the 40,000 women on go fund me who are seeking to remove their healthy breasts…. For an ideology.





This is a day that smiles at every gender clinic for children which opens up, gleefully sending the latest and youngest recruits to be sliced, diced, and sterilized. I am saddened and sickened to announce that 300 pediatric specialists in Gender “Transition” exist in North America and 1000 when counting the 18+ services- and we are not done counting.





What is even more disturbing, is the lack of resistance I face when I present myself to a clinic and ask them if they will provide services for my newly sexed 14-year-old;


“No problem…. We provide full gender affirmation services, Maam”


“You’re such an excellent mother, wow, so great… when can we book you in for an appointment with one of our gender affirmative specialists.”


Pictures glorifying breast removal dominate social media, where pay by click advertising is used to lure hashtags aimed at confused youth. What makes me shudder is that they are operating with such unashamed greed, predation, and shamelessness- behind every smile is a cheque, with every breast removal from a teen is a photo opportunity encouraging more customers.





I, for one, won’t be going along with this. We can all only help in our own individual ways. Sunlight is the best disinfectant and I intend to slam down every lie that there are only a dozen or so pediatric gender clinics in the World with the facts. There are hundreds if not approaching thousands and all of them are culpable.


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